2019

GOOD GRIEF PART 2

A theology of lament begins with a foundational understanding of the suffering of the Godhead before it is about my suffering; of the grief of the Godhead before it is about my sorrow; of the righteous judgment of God, before it is about my anger.

A PASTORAL LETTER

Dearest family,

Good theology begins with the nature of God, not the needs of man. A theology of lament begins with a foundational understanding of the suffering of the Godhead before it is about my suffering; of the grief of the Godhead before it is about my sorrow; of the righteous judgment of God, before it is about my anger. The last two Sundays I have tried to make some observations related to this, and I presented five points for discussion and consideration under the title “Good Grief’.

1. There is the grief that God brings. The Book of Lamentations is such because it is the
response to God’s acts of judgment against the nation “Because of her many sins” (1:5).
2. There is the grief that God feels. “The Lord said, I am grieved that I made man” (Genesis 6:
5-7). Lament is God’s heart response to sin and its consequences. Lament is expressed by all
three persons of the Trinity.
3. There is the grief that desires and requires. God’s commands to lament come to the
prophets, the pastors and the people.
4. There is the grief that is normal and appropriate as a response of the people of God to
the God of the people.
5. There is a grief that God responds to. “The Lord has heard my weeping … The Lord accepts
my prayer” (Psalm 6:8).

I would invite you to listen to the recordings of these two messages so you can consider the scriptural argumentation that was presented. If we want to learn to lament biblically we simply need to pray … a lot! Prayer and lament are not two separate expressions, disciplines or practices. They are inseparable. When you pray for divine action in the terrain of human brokenness, you cannot avoid the divine affections. When you want God’s glory, you cannot avoid God’s grief. May our lament be responsive, not only to the crises and consequences of our sin, past and present, but responsive to the grief of God over that which is destructive of His will for us, and of His image in us.

Pastorally yours,

Stuart

GOOD GRIEF

Why bring a message entitled ‘GOOD GRIEF’ on Pentecost Sunday? The fact is that precisely because the Holy Spirit is a Person and not just an atmosphere or a presence, as a Person, He can be grieved (as well as resisted or insulted).

A PASTORAL LETTER

Dearest family,

I suggested on Sunday that the message I was going to bring might seem untypical of a usual Pentecost Sunday sermon. Shouldn’t it be upbeat and excitedly charismatic? Why bring a message entitled ‘GOOD GRIEF’? The fact is that precisely because the Holy Spirit is a Person and not just an atmosphere or a presence, as a Person, He can be grieved (as well as resisted or insulted). In an earlier series this year on the gifts of the Holy Spirit I spoke at length about the ways that we both grieve and quench the Holy Spirit, so I guess Sunday’s message was an extension of that discourse. When you read Acts 2 on Pentecost Sunday it is clear why our attention is first drawn to the outpouring of the Holy Spirit and to the experiential deluge of spiritual gifts. Less attention is paid in our culture to the sermon that follows, simply because we prefer the experiential to the explanation. But even less attention is paid to the outcomes of that explanation in Peter’s presentation of Jesus and the gospel. The text says that the people were “cut to the heart” (v37). The revelation the Holy Spirit brought, particularly about Jesus and what their sin had done to Him, caused a lamentation. I am arguing that lament is one of the inevitable manifestations of the coming of the Spirit as it brings conviction and confession, and a revelation of the heart of God that leads to repentance. The baptism of the Holy Spirit is not disconnected from a baptism of repentance. As a young man I remember sitting at the feet of the great Hebridean revivalist, Duncan Campbell, and hear him plead for that latter baptism. When the Spirit fell on us at that meeting, it fell as the fear of God. This has been the trademark of the coming of the Holy Spirit in all awakenings and revivals. The grief accompanies the glory. Yes, there may be tongues of fire, but there also wet tears. The tears do not douse the flames but are part and parcel of the baptism in the Spirit.

Herewith are some brief comments, but as I’m going to complete the message next Sunday, I will save the full summary of the five main points till next week’s pastoral letter so you have them all in one cohesive communication. In focusing on lament, I suggested by way of introduction that it seems to me that there are two equal and opposite dangers right now.

1. The first danger is that lament becomes its own kind of buzz-word. It has become a new “in” word in the evangelical vocabulary. Some are talking of it as if it has only just been recovered, or discovered. The fact that is seems so new and relevant is perhaps a comment on the demise of our spiritual intimacy and sensitivity and that in itself should provoke sorrow. Yes, it is absolutely true that lament is a thoroughly non-negotiable, irreplaceable biblical expression of spirituality, always has been, and that scripture is full of it. As was shared last week, so succinctly and well by Paul and Val, lament accounts for about a third of the Praise and Prayer Manual of the Bible, namely the Psalms (we looked at some of them in the Psalm Series – 22, 42, 43, 77, 88 etc.); it was integral to the communication of the prophets (see series on Minor Prophets and Lamentations); it was intrinsic to the recorded communication of Jesus (see Luke 19, John 4 and the gospel accounts of the crucifixion). It is true that lament sadly plays little role in public liturgy or popular hymnody. It is true that most churches want to be defined by their experience of laudation not lament. We have praise bands, not mourning minstrels. There are not many guitars that know how to gently weep, to borrow from the famous song by the Beatle, George Harrison. Interestingly, there’s a verse he wrote that was excised from the final version: “I look at the trouble and hate that is raging / While my guitar June 12, 2019 gently weeps / As I’m sitting here doing nothing but ageing / While my guitar gently weeps.” It is true that in American church culture, the theology of celebration has out-shouted the theology of suffering. The loud praise song has silenced the quiet lament. This was the indictment of God on the sanctuaries through Amos: “You strum away like David … but you do not grieve over the ruin of Joseph” (6:5). It is true that a reason for this is the desire for all to be always well with the world, our “best life now”, as Joel Osteen heretically puts it, which amounts to an evasion of any reality that smudges the cosmetics of our ‘be happy’ prosperity and populism. It is true that historical amnesia is the present evidence of a national dementia, and that its alliance with narcissism has resulted in a national mind with a personality disorder.

What I am saying is that as true and important as it is, for the sheer scriptural reasons that I began to refer to on Sunday, to experience and therefore express lament as the grief of God, it must not become a fad, or a fleshly thing, or yet another divisive tag between those who are discerning enough to lament, and the poor unspiritual beggars who do not, and therefore are not as we are. By definition, how can lament that is the dereliction of humility be turned into a badge of enlightenment and spiritual pride? By the way, I just referred to ‘experiencing and expressing’ lament. We cannot express in lament what we have not experienced in either suffering or identificational suffering, but more deeply than that, what we do not experience of the heart of a grieving God. If our responses to the present condition, particularly racial irreconciliation in this nation, is to merely exchange competing views of secular history, differing perceptions of shame, contrary accusations of blame, then we will not be reconcilers. We will have missed several key things that include:

• Knowing that our responses of lament are not original, not primarily rooted in our
experiences or perceptions, but rooted in the character and heart of a reconciling and
redeeming God. In our lament we cannot be pridefully comforted that we are among the few
who really get it!
•We will also miss the fact that Satan, his thrones, dominions, principalities and powers – all
his counterfeit lordships, authorities, and all his demons – are utterly united against the unity
that God’s heart desires. We will end up fighting the problems with carnal not spiritual
weaponry.

2. The second danger is that we will recognize and acknowledge the need to lament, engage it, but move on too soon as if we have checked the box. It will be treated as a temporary need, as a distinctive and independent and situational expression that remains unincorporated into our larger understanding of worship, discipleship and community life. Lament? We read the chapter, had a teaching, and even wrote one ourselves. What’s next? I have always believed that lament is an inevitable experience and expression if you commit to know the heart of God. It’s not a subject, not even a self-conscious practice or means or method. It arises out of intimate relationship with God. It may well be stirred initially by suffering, either of self or others, but if it is not connected with the affections of God, it will just end up as a sad soliloquy. Lament is not an occasional flavor of the month but an integral part of the ‘DNA’ of normal and regular communication with God. Lament is surely a righteous response to personal suffering, but where does that lament lead us and what does it produce in us in our engagement with God and His world? It is for this reason that I am inviting you to linger a little longer on what Paul and Val addressed two Sundays ago. Join me on Sunday as we conclude the truth of “good grief”, the Pentecostal message that lament is a normal response to the outpouring of the Holy Spirit.

Pastorally yours,

Stuart

BECAUSE JESUS WAS RAISED

Are you prepared to be encouraged, provoked to worship and generally open to be more grateful for what has been achieved for you, forever, through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, by which we have been born new into a living hope.

A PASTORAL LETTER

Dearest family,

I’m sitting at the gate at Dulles trying to get a letter to you all. On Sunday I promised that I would get you all the scriptures I referenced in that concentrated catechism on the resurrection in the epistles that helped us to complete the sentence: BECAUSE JESUS WAS RAISED … Are you prepared to be encouraged, provoked to worship and generally open to be more grateful, more thankful for what has been achieved for you, forever, through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, by which we have been born anew into a living hope.

BECAUSE JESUS WAS RAISED…
Acts 2:33: We have life in the Holy Spirit. (Do you need a fresh filling of the Holy Spirit?)
Acts 13:33: All God’s promises are true and the promise of salvation in particular is fully fulfilled (Are you struggling to believe God’s promises for you?)
Acts 13:38: The logic of Jesus’ resurrection for Paul is the assurance about the gift of forgiveness because Jesus has fulfilled the punishment that law would execute. (Are you in need of forgiveness?) • Acts 17:31: We will give an account of how we have responded to Him when we too are raised (Do you need to keep short accounts with him now given that you will give an account then?)
Roms.4: 25 - 5:1-3: We know that Christ’s sacrifice on the cross was accepted by God and that we too are accepted. (Are you struggling with your acceptance by God?)
Roms.6:4: We too may now also live a new life. (Are you manifesting the old life?)
Roms.8:11: We can now be free of the wretched domination of our lives by our physical appetites, by our flesh, and live according to the rule and life of the Spirit in victory (Any bondages, any appetites you need freedom from?)
Roms.10:9: We can be assuredly saved for there is no salvation without the belief and confession that Jesus is raised (Do you confess your faith with assurance?)
1 Cors.6:14: There is a power available for deliverance from body-based sin, especially sexual, because the same power that raised Jesus will also raise our bodies from that which destroys it and kills the spirit. (Do you need his resurrection to influence and infuse your sexuality?)
2 Cors.1:9: God is proven trustworthy and reliable to be depended upon for if He delivered Jesus from death and Jesus trusted Him to do so in fulfillment of His promise, then we too can depend on his deliverance (Any challenges and struggles to trusting God with anything? Anything you cannot believe he can come through on for you?)
2 Cors.4:14: We can know the living presence of God in our lives right now as well as forever, it is a living presence (Any hardship and pressure that needs relief?)
Ephs.1:20: We can be assured now of the exceeding greatness of his power towards us. (Tempted to believe His help works for others but not you – His goodness is always towards someone else but you?)
Cols.2:12: We no longer need to keep dragging out our days and years in a state of deadness in our trespasses and sins but can be made alive together with Christ, assured that he atoned thoroughly and completely for our sin, for all the wrong that we could rightly be accused of, and we can be forgiven, and on top of all that, the principalities and the powers, those things that work against our faith and spiritual success, whether sins or systems, whether institutions or iniquities, have been disarmed (Do you feel unprotected, vulnerable?)
Cols.3:10: We can have a whole new orientation of mind and we can set our mind on things above because our death-ridden mind has been freed and we can put to death all the junk, the fornication, uncleanness, evil desire, covetousness; we can rid ourselves of anger, malice, blasphemy, filthy language and thoughts, lies (Any wrong thinking about yourself or the Lord? What are the networks of ungodly thoughts that invade your mind and dreams?)
1 Thess.1:10: We can be delivered from the wrath to come (Are you confident in your eternal future? If not why not?)
Philips.3:10: We can attain the resurrection of the dead. (Are you focused on what’s to come or are you shocked by the this-worldliness of your values and ambitions?)
1 Pet.1:3: We have an assured hope and a secure inheritance that will never fade away (Can you trust the Lord for his eternal care for you?)
1 Pet. 1:21: We too can have the same faith and hope in God as Jesus did. (Do you think that you are limited in your capacities to trust God and just have to live with it?)
Hebs.7:25: We have a 24/7 intercessor who advocates for us so we are on God’s radar. God is into finished business – wants to save completely. (Have you given up on anything in your spiritual life? Do you need to recover a faith and hope in God’s commitment to perfect and finish what concerns you?)
1 Cors.15:
o We are not still dead but made alive because miracles do happen and our natures can be changed.
o Preaching is not useless Our faith is not vain but true and transforming
o God is not a liar but true to every word and promise
o We are not still in our sins but utterly forgiven
o The dead in Christ have not perished
o We are not to be most pitied and patronized, but rather we have lives that should be the envy of
all
Roms.6:7: Death has no more fear. control and dominion over us
1 Cors.15:54: death has been swallowed up
2 Tim.1:10: Death is abolished
Hebrs.2:14: He has destroyed him who has the power of death.
Rev. 20:14: death shall be cast into the lake of fire
Rev.21:4: there shall be no more death (Do you have a fear of dying?)

Can you stand any more good news? Alright, just one more paragraph.

BECAUSE JESUS WAS RAISED…
Mt.16:16: we know we serve a living Lord
Jn.6:57: we know we are sons and daughters of a living Father
Hebrs.10:20: we know we walk in a living way
Jn.4:10: we drink living water
Jn.6:51: we eat living bread
Hebrs.4:12; 1 Pet.1:23: we have the living word of God
Roms.12:1: we offer ourselves in worship and service as living sacrifices
1 Pet.1:3: we have a living hope (Is something dead in your life that you need the power of Jesus
to recover and raise?)

The story of the church is recorded in Acts 1:3 in these words: “He showed Himself alive.” The final message to the church is spoken in Rev.1:18: “I am the living one – I was dead and behold I am alive forever and ever!” According to the scripture, Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father so that everything that has been mentioned above can take effect, or to put it simply, so that we too may live a new life. By the tomb of Lazarus, in the face of all that was our death, on the eve of the cross, Jesus said, “I am the resurrection and the life! DO YOU BELIEVE THIS?” Well, do you? Because Jesus was raised…. according to the scriptures…

I have mentioned so many blessings of the resurrection that touch on so many areas of our lives. Was there one in particular that rang true with you? Was there an application of the resurrection to something specific in your life? Where does the truth of the resurrection need to be freshly experienced by you? Where does it need to be manifested in your life? What difference is the truth of the resurrection of Jesus making to your life? Christ is Risen!

Pastorally yours,

Stuart

SPIRITUAL GIFTS IN COMMUNITY LIFE

1 Thessalonians 5:19-21

Examining the manifestation and function of spiritual gifts in the public, corporate life of a community.

A PASTORAL LETTER

Dearest family,

On Sunday we began a conversation together about the manifestation and function of spiritual gifts in the public, corporate life of a community of faith like ours. How many of you found it easier to list the 9 fruits than the nine gifts of the Holy Spirit? If so, what is that telling us?

After commenting on the pre-existent attitudes and experiences that many people bring to supernatural gifts of the Spirit, I suggested that when all is said and done, there are two equal dangers that we might face.

1. An uncritical acceptance of anything that goes: Not all manifestations are equal or necessarily spiritual. They can be fleshly. To mean well is not necessarily to minister well. But we are not in the dark because there are specific scriptural tests that invite us to “prove all things and hold fast what is good.” (1 Thessalonians 5:21)

2. An unspiritual response to the Giver, the Holy Spirit: There can be so much focus on the gifts that there is a failure to discern whose gifts they are. It is sad and bad when there is a failure to discern his personhood and we irreverently treat the Holy Spirit as if our domestic or spiritual valet, or we talk impersonally about the Spirit as if it is a quantifiable juice, essence, liquid, or vapor. Whenever we separate gift and giver the latter is always is always dishonored. Again, the Holy Spirit is a person – not an influence or atmospherics.
• Can be lied to (Peter to Ananias - “You have lied to the Holy Spirit!” Acts 5:3)
• Can be resisted (Stephen - “You always resist the Holy Spirit!” Acts 7:51)
• Can be insulted (“How much more severely do you think a man deserves to be punished …
who has insulted the Spirit of grace?” Hebrews 10:29)
• Can be grieved (“Do not grieve the Holy Spirit” Ephesians 4:30)
• Can be quenched (“Do not quench the Spirit” 1 Thessalonians 5:19)

You cannot hurt a power, a principle, or a proposition but you can hurt a person. Those most familiar with charismatic renewal need to heed this as much as those who oppose the gifts of the Holy Spirit. There can be a hurt Spirit even where there are gifts manifested. There’s nothing worse than a proud gift user. Our counseling rooms are filled with hurt people – what about a grieved or quenched Spirit?

TWO SPECIFIC WARNINGS
1. “Do not grieve the Holy Spirit” (Ephesians 4:30) How do we grieve the Holy Spirit? Let me suggest some ways:
a. failure to recognize his person: what I have just been referring to – treating the Holy
Spirit as less than he is or as more than he is (ignoring or idolizing).
b. failure to remember his purpose: “sealed for the day of redemption” – not cooperating
with the work of the Holy Spirit which is to keep us, mature us, use us and prepare us for
what is yet to come
c. failure to realize his presence: insensitive to his workings, undiscerning of his
operations
d. failure to respect his purity: forgetting it’s the HOLY Spirit – hardening of sin and of
conscience
e. failure to respond to his promptings: avoiding conviction, disobeying his leading,
resisting his nudges
f. failure to receive his provision: The Spirit makes available to us all that Jesus has
received from the Father, including gifts and graces – given to enable and empower us to be
what Jesus wants us to be – and we then determine what we will and will not consider
relevant to us, applicable to us, desirable for us, needful for us?

2. “Do not quench the Spirit…” (1 Thessalonians 5:19) Paul is responding to Timothy’s report of what issues the church was dealing with. The section in which this verse appears (vs12-22) is dealing with congregational issues: church leadership, church relationships and church worship and prayer, including the manifestation of spiritual gifts. Paul doesn’t just talk about what the Spirit does for us but what we can do to the Spirit. “Do not put out the Spirit’s fire – do not treat prophecies with contempt.” Calvin is right though when he says “The warning not to quench the Spirit has a wider application than just despising prophecy.”

What we must not miss here is that the first thing the textual context demands that we address is not just a personal response to the Spirit but a corporate / community / congregational response. The reference to prophecy tells us as much. It is possible to quench the Spirit in our public services. This has nothing to do with whether the service is liturgical or non-liturgical, Episcopal or Pentecostal – they can both be equally rigid and controlled so there remains no room for the Spirit to be expressed through other than the leaders of the service. The fact is that everyone should have “a hymn, or a word of instruction, a revelation, a tongue or an interpretation” (1 Corinthians 14:7).

I went on to mention some categories of factors that can be quenching in services: control, culture, consensus, conformity, concerns, criticism, confusion. I suggest you re-listen to the message to get the details, and if you were absent on Sunday, which many of you were, then because of the community implications, I urge you to catch up with the conversation and listen to what was shared.

Before we start talking about specific gifts, let’s make sure that our relationship with the Holy Spirit is in good standing, both personally and corporately, and that we are neither grieving or quenching his person or his work.

Immediately following the injunction not to quench the Spirit, Paul says, “Test everything.” (v21) The lack of spiritual testing fosters disorder and confusion, and even false teaching that leads to questionable behavior and practice, and soon, before you know it, anything goes. Confusion always follows the failure to discern flesh from Spirit, but also the immature from the mature. Testing will not quench what is genuine and will not attribute to the Spirit what is false or fleshly. This of course assumes those present who are trustworthy to so test and discern. So what tests are we talking about? Come Sunday and find out as we continue our chat about this, fueled by a desire for a healthy community life.

Pastorally yours,

Stuart


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